Wednesday, April 22, 2020

What can I do about my mom's abuse?  

What can I do about my mom's abuse?  

answers 0:I am the middle child a family of 4. My mom, my older sister, my younger sister, and me. My dad recently died and that has caused my mom to act out at me and take her anger out on me. Any little thing I do makes her yell, hit, drag, or verbally abuse me. On top of this, she won't supply me with little things I need to get around with. A phone, for emergencies. Money, for when she's at work (18 hours a day) so I can support myself. A bike, so I can get to places for appointments (she doesn't take me) or practice for my sport. Whenever I'm hurt she always screams at me. She tried legally disowning me once, and calls me the bad child. My sister (younger) screams at her and yells but my mom doesn't do anything about this. She just gives her whatever she wants. What can I do to get my mom to get me a phone,! bike, and to give me money? I would be happy with that at least. Help...Show moreanswers 1:You need help of your friends or other people near you away from your family.Try a conversation with a priest or a religion guide.It depends on of your age too.Maybe your mom is lost without your father above all if she is a young woman.answers 2:You do not need a phone. If there is an emergency, use your house phone, since you apparently don't go anywhere anyway without transportation.A bike? Get a ride from a friend who is on the team. Appointments? Try walking. It's not that different from riding a bike; it just takes longer.Money? To support yourself? Does she not buy you food and keep a roof over your head? I think you want to go blow your money on clothes or something. If you really needed money, she'd give it to you.Other than that, keep out of her way. She's grieving. You have to let her....answers 3:Also, I'm too young to apply for a work permit.answers 4:No one deserves to ! be abused and treated like this. It's understandable to be ups! et about this situation at home. Consider making a a report to child protective services, if you need help doing this or need someone to talk to please give the Boys Town National hotline a call at 1-800-448-3000, were here 24/7 or our counselors can be reached by email at www.yourlifeyourvoice.org or we have an online chat Monday-Thursday 8-11pm CST, which can also be reached by our website. Bottom line is everyone deserves to be safe in their own home and have their basic needs met. Good luckCounselor BJ...answers 5:Ok it sounds like your mom needs some help....and I don't mean this offensively.....you should contact a good friend, teacher, or counselor and talk to them about what's going on. This way you don't have to envolve the police, but at least your getting your mom help, or theropy. I know this sounds bad, but you can be in serious physical danger and I suggest you go stay at a friends house for a couple nights while you try to find help. Make sure to bring your s! ister or siblings because once you're gone, she'll probably just take her anger out on a younger one. Try to get your mom help, it's more important than getting what you need. Your mom is going through a lot of pain and doesn't know how to handle it. Once she pulls through she'll regret everything she ever did to you. Trust me on this. Get a profesional to help you....answers 6:I live far away from all my appointments (doctor, dentist, ect) at least 30 miles. My dad picked the house since it was far away from everything. The nearest bus stop is 14 miles away. My mom kicks me out of the house and tells me to deal with it. She doesnt let me back in until I beg. She refuses to give me food most of the time and padlocks the fridge. Sometimes my sister sneaks me food but most of the time I have to wait until school the next day to eat from someone else.I was closer to my dad?...answers 7:I don't believe you.answers 8:we dont get to chose our family and its to bad as nobody woul! d choose her to be their momget a part time jobanswers 9:REALLY? You wa! nt to say I'm lying because my life isn't perfect?answers 10:Parental psychology suggest that parents who don't supply their kids with basic needs need to drink *** from a polystyrene cup, You may supply the *** yourself but once she has drunk it you will be given the bike you need, Tell her that her reluctance to buy you things makes you masturbate furiously. Thanks Donny Schuman...answers 11:Well. It sounds very extreme. Keep in mind that your mom is hurting also from your dad's death. Talk to a school counselor. As hard as it may be, tjhats the best thing to do. If you care about your family, then you must.answers 12:Sorry i agree with the people above me and definetly the first answer. It kinda sounds like your lieing too.answers 13:Call CPS.answers 14:We don't have a house phone. Thanks for the smart answer. Also what if I walked some place and was stranded there. It has happened. Then one of my friends passed by driving and picked me up. Sometimes my mom drops me o! ff on the side of the road and tells me to walk when we are several cities away. I end up walking to a police station and they take me home.

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